look it up.
have you been victim or perpetrator?
have you sought it out or are you wandering unknowingly into its path?
it is too easy for people to present themselves and their situations in a certain light - a light designed to make them more attractive and to lure you to them - especially when you are dealing with the veil of the internet.
keep your feet grounded in reality and watch your step.
that's the best advice i can give you, hon. good luck.